chinese Traditional pre-wedding preparation

送娉日．．

１６　December 2009

this was the day which the bridegroom's family would send the wedding biscuits 喜饼，红包，红烛，喜包(kaya pao). then the bride family need 2 give other things in return such as 母糖，红蜡，汽水，红包．．

these are what the bridegroom's family sent to my house

These are the 母糖．．
We gave them back in return

there will be an elderly to come and negotiate with bride's family on any demand for the wedding day..as usual, my parents have no comment and demand on that..everything just simple and easy !!!