Friday, April 29, 2011

First Chinese New Year with New Family


TIGER Chinese New Year

this was my first time celebrating CNY in my new in law's house...
yet, i still missed my family who celebrate CNY in kampung..
my mind, never stop,
imagining what my siblings,
my relatives,
were doing !!!

anyhow, feeling excited too
status as MRS. ooi
looking forward to distribute angpow the next day
this time have to give angpow
luckily have some rebate from the elderly
as first year of married can gain back angpow

our first reunion dinner with new family

lou sang

steamboat dinner

when about 12 midnight, is time for praying

i am looking forward the next day 年初一
as we couldn't wait to go back to Popo's house

we went to Baling Kuan yin temple
get good bless from kuan yin
good luck and good health throughout the year


年初二
we invited lion dance performed in our house
RM188

next, looking forward for our honeymoon trip in Bali

Life After Married

LIfe After MaRried

i always wondering,
life after married,
...supposed to be blissful...

but wHy,
i don't feel it..
we always quarrel...
of nothing..
with divert thinking
and perception

wHy after married,
he seems to be more ego,
more jealous,
more autocratic...

Anyhow,
he promise to change..
AS
he said he behaves like this
is because
he too loves me
he doesn't want to share my love with some others
my heart should 100% belong to him

OR
maybe
i still in the mode of adjusting
mY NeW LiFe
new life with New family
i also need time to adapt

hope soon,
i could get used of it..
and no more
fighting,
quarrel,
and
cold war !!!

wEdding Night ReCeption


we had learned from the experience..departed earlier and reached the hall at about 7pm...so everything still under control...
still had time 2 take photo

entering the hall in srkj(c) pekan lama

cake cutting ceremony

champagne time

敬酒仪式 & 致谢词

singing session


yam seng time
the end of the reception
sending off the guests

then continue 'yammmmmm..'

the night was still young...
drinking session to be continued at our house

THE END
of our big day
25 Dec 2009
Christmas Day

Wish We Lived Happily Ever After

The Highlight of the Year

BIG-BIG DAY (2)

After 5 minutes have reached bridegroom's house...will go through the same procedures...

various types of kuih being prepared

i could still eat

then, again praying session

serving tea ceremony
at this time, i realized that my legs totally out of function..
what was in my mind was,
removing my high heels and
for sure i will fell better..
but i still bear with it...
TAHAN..TAHAN..TAHAN...

finally i could sit and give the angpow to the youngsters

family photo shooting session

heading up to our new room

击痰盆

removing the white shawl



the end of our day time wedding ceremony



felt relieved

have about 1 hour rest before going to the bridal house for make up and hair do to the night reception


The Highlight of the Year

BIG BIG DAY (1)
25 December 2009

about 7 in the morning, the make up and hair do artist came...about 1 n half hour everything was done...i was a beautiful bride...it is true that bride will be the prettiest woman in the world...


my parents helped to put up the hair shawl


family photo session

finally he is here..car opening..of course must bribe with angpaw



must go through few stages in order to enter the house...

had the egg breaking 1st..but not eating them

final stage to get the bride

making his whole life promise

FINALLY

the sweetest moment i have ever had..

have to walk around the house for 3 times,
meaning have passed 3 days and i am back to 娘家

praying session again

tea serving ceremony for the elderly

giving angpaw 4 the youngsters

family photo session

having meals with the family

Is time to say goodbye as is time to go to bridegroom's house